Wednesday, July 30, 2008

A Great Accomplishment


The gym was booked solid this morning for childcare so I thought I would get to things that I had been putting off.
Like getting a bookcase for all those books that seem to multipy and hide everywhere: in the living room, the kitchen table, in the bathroom, the laundry basket, the foyer . . . well, you get the point. Everywhere.
But getting a bookcase is just not as easy as it seems.
First I need to lay sutle hints for a month, or two to ease Brad into the idea of spending money on another piece of furniture.
Then I need to convince him that the one that I have cased out (because I naturally am a researcher, for every item in our house!) is the right one, the best value for our money, and the one we need . . . now. That part is pretty tricky.
When I finally got the "go-ahead", I piled all the kids in the car and zoomed off to Ikea, making a pit stop at the pool for swimming lessons.
(By the way, getting two boys changed in a gross change room while holding a 17 lbs baby in one arm and juggling a cell phone, car keys, two towels, a massive purse, and four shoes is a work out in itself. That is why I normally just take them home sopping wet. But not today.)
We got to Ikea and I thought I could minimize my excess baggage by dropping the kids off at the free daycare . . . only to find out that they don't let them in unless they are wearing socks!
The boys, and even Avery, were actually pretty good shoppers . . . if you can forget the part of both boys hanging off the cart, making it near impossible to steer clear of people or displays . . . all while carrying 17 lbs of baby in one arm.
The bookcase itself was all right. I actually ended up going for a completely different one, that felt like it was made of solid steel. (Of course it wasn't, this is Ikea, and things are only build of the cheapest material that they can find.)
I sat through a long line up with three wiggly, starving children to find out that the lady wouldn't help me find someone to just bring the bookcase to the check out. I had to go out on the floor, find someone, and then cart everything, and everyone, back to a line that was now double what I had already stood through.
That was one feat. (Or four if you are a mother to young children and consider the facts that: I convinced my husband to budget for a bookcase, and that I even left the house, went swimming and changed, and zipped around Ikea with three kids and no a dad great accomplishments in themselves.)
Getting to the car I soon realized that I should have been more specific in my requests. Instead of just asking for help loading the bookcase into my cart, it might have been handy to have someone help me lift it into my car.
Fortunately, a lady passing by helped me out and we made it home without any injury occuring to Jackson who had to sit right beside/underneath the bookcase.
To get it out of the car and into the garage, I flipped it over itself several times. Then I just took it out of the box and carried pieces upstairs.
The directions said, "Two People Needed to Assemble."
That was pretty odd for Ikea furniture. Should I really wait for Brad to have some free time to do it with me? I was a bit nervous, especially since the last piece from Ikea that I tried to do in my impatience was our coffee table and it never once stood sturdy.
Whatever. When was I going to find time for Brad to be around? And besides, it is a bookcase. How hard can that be?
I may not have another adult around, but a 5 year old and 3 year old could suffice, right?
I must admit, I love to put things together. It must stem from my early woodshop days--if you forget the time I almost severed my thumb off with the bansaw. It just provides me with a sense of accomplishment.
Ikea stuff, however, is usuallly disheartening. You follow the picture directions perfectly and can still end up with something that looks like a piece of junk. (Case in point, our current coffee table.) But, it was cheaper than anything else I could find and I was sick of shoving books into corners or tubs.
Putting the shelf together was a major workout.
I really mean, major.
I am more sore from putting this bookcase together than from my first day in spinning class, or after a weight training class.
Even with Jayden's help pushing on one side and using all the leverage I could find, I had a heck of a time joining plywood planks together close enough to put it together properly. (Because if you have ever build anything from Ikea you know that if you don't screw things in right the first time, you've wasted your money. It will never be sturdy.)
The boys had a great time "helping". Jayden brought me the pieces that I needed and put a bit of muscle in when I needed it; Jackson was in charge of suppling me with the screws and wood pegs . . . and sometimes got a little carried away and placed them in random holes for me.
But we did it.
Without an extra person, or a man. And I was even wearing a skirt.
It actually looks good. Especially with all the books on it.
I stand amazed that we actually had that many books! No wonder I was going out of my mind!
The boys helped me organize the books onto each shelf and so far (crossing my fingers) they have been very good about putting each book back in its place . . . with the spine facing out.
We'll see how long that lasts though.
It is nice to see a finished product for my 5 hours of work. But the biggest bonus? Hearing that in spite of swimming lessons, going out for lunch at Wendy's, or playing with toys, building the bookcase was the highlight of the boys' day.
Now that is a great accomplishment. And it makes all the exhaustion through the day worthwhile.

It's Here!

Whew! I have been spending too much time on "work" these days! My eyes are going buggy, my kids have truly destroyed my house . . . but it's done.

Well, pretty much.

Good enough for now.

It seems that when it comes to photos, websites, and sadly, blogs, good never cuts it. Even great needs improvement.

But, I have to know when enough is enough, and right now, it is enough.

So please go check out my new website:
http://melanietemplemanphoto.com/

Be sure to check out "sneak peaks". I have a few newborn sessions this week, a kid's session, and a wedding in a few weeks.

Let me know what you think! I will still be doing some corrections here and there . . . but not until I have had several fun-filled days playing with my kids.

Oh, and maybe (finally) mopping the kitchen floor!

Thursday, July 24, 2008

Hair Stylists: The Female Equivalent of Mechanics

For the past four years I have been struggling to find a good hair stylist (cut and colour) in the "burbs" but have failed miserably.

Finally, I went back to modeling for a well-known, high end salon downtown for the past year. It was a glorious year of hair for me, especially because it didn't cost me a dime.

Well, not for the hair care. I did have to pay for the train, subway, and a day's worth of babysitting for two kids. (Brad was never home during the day, and that was the only time the apprentices cut.)

Now that I have three youngsters at home, and still, no Brad, it is aggrevating to make it all the way downtown to have a 3 hour cut and a 3 hour colour job. (Plus about 2.5 hours in travel time round trip.)

So, I went out to find a salon.

Not just any salon.

I have tried any.

I have even tried "good" and "great". None of which offered a decent cut. Colour, well, that's a different story as I will go on to say.

This salon was supposed to be one of the best in the country.

The prices weren't horrible, but they were pretty steep for me. Especially since my last year or so of hair was basically free.

I sat down to consult with the colourist. "Single process colour." That's what I said. Both on the phone, and in the consultation.

Now I know highlights are great, one of the apprentices I had in the past used to do a few highlights in with the single process and it was no biggie. In fact, it was great for me. I just didn't have $150 for highlights on top of the colour! She told me that she was going to bring one colour here and lighten it up over there. Sure, sounds good.

The reveal came out. The colour was gorgeous. She really did a great job. The few little highlights she put in to "lighten it up over there" looked great.

Until it came time to pay.

$220!!

Now, in the past, I would have coughed up the money using my "emergency fund" that I stash in my wallet so when these unexpected expenses come up I can take care of them without the lecture from Brad.

(In fact, this has actually happened. I was getting an apprentice at a "great" local salon who did a "single process" colour that was supposed to cost $30 and then wound up with some highlights totalling $110 . . . for an apprentice! Not being natually squeaky, I paid out of my emergency fund.)

But not to be a fool two times over, (and the fact that I was using Brad's credit card to pay and didn't have any "emergency funds"), I had to stand my ground. It's a good thing I had just read an article in a magazine about how to be squeaky and get your way.

They brought out the manager and I insisted that I had said single process and nothing more. How could I explain such a drastic price difference to my husband who would never understand why a hair do would need to cost so much. And of course, I could totally understand, and love it, but I'd hate to have to "discuss" it with my hubby.

Finally, they did just charge me the price for a single process.

Now I am beginning to wonder though, are hair stylists the female equivalent of mechanics? Do they purposely add in treatments and things to boost their bottom line?

As a side note, Brad really loved the cut and colour and told me I could get it done every six months. But not for $220.

Sigh. What do you do?

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

A New Addition!

Something is coming . . . and soon!

No, not another baby . . . not of the human kind anyway!

But a new, revamped website!

Stay tuned. It will be up and running soon!

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Weekend Getaway

We went to the cottage this past weekend.

It was a nice break, especially since it was raining all weekend down here.
The kids had a blast practicing their swimming techniques, racing around the lake on the sea-doo, and eating, er, playing with sand.
Mom and Dad even got a bit of a nap on one of the days.

The ride up and back though weren't fun at all. Avery was teething adn screaming all the way up, and on the way back down we were stuck in horrible traffic. To make matters worse, when we were in gridlock Jackson announced, "I have to go Pu-ee-ee!"

That usually means we have about 10 seconds to get him seated on a toilet.

We told him he will just have to hold it because we can't stop right here. Brad started to look around the car for an empty cup.
(We did make it to an exit where he could water the lawn.)
When we were about 15 minutes away from home, Jayden made a similar announcement.
Jackson replied for us, "Jayden, you'll just have to hold it."
I have this 9 photo collage frame on the wall in our bedroom that still has photos of Jayden from when we first moved up here. It's well past time for a change and I have been waiting for the right photos to put in it.
Not that these are exactly what I had in mind (technically stellar, knock out photos), but I needed to get something up a little more current. And, since I had them ready, I thought I'd slap them on here too, for fun.

Sunday, July 20, 2008

May Family Pics


Yes, these are pictures from May.
It is crazy how long it has taken to get them in my hands, considering it was from a friend and I just wanted the negatives.

But, anyway, here they are. In both colour and black and white. (I am trying to get used to some new processing methods, so bare with me.)
The day was crazy. It seems we can always pick the coldest morning to get our pictures done! I think that for our fall portraits we will have to pick a day in September so we don't freeze again like last year . . . or this past spring!

Friday, July 18, 2008

BOY {definition}

Boy: (n) a noise with dirt on it.
Can you tell what my boys have been up to?

It's been pretty hot out here so I set the sprinkler up to cool the boys off and put a bit of moisture in our lawn. They were having so much fun and it had been a long time since I had watered our lawn, so I left it on for a while.

Only, my struggling lawn has yet to flourish in some of the dirt patches that I made. So, when the copious amounts of water were added, it turned into a mud puddle.

Just perfect for jumping into and swimming in? Yup, swimming all right.

The fun really kicked in when they found a "dirt caterpiller" (aka to lawn gardeners as a grub).

Yuk!

No wonder my lawn is struggling!

Oh, but why should we stop having fun when an unslightly pest has been found. Jackson came to the rescue, donning his ferocious shark boots . . . and bare bottom?

Yes, aparently grub drowning is a tough job and his swimsuit was too restrictive.

I suppose I should be happy that he was at least wearing foot protection while he swam with grubs.

Boys. Sigh.

Monday, July 14, 2008

Someone Has Some New Teeth

Okay, so the bottom ones aren't quite so new. (The first one sprouted out in Barcelona, the second a week after.)

But the two on top have painfully been coming in this week. (And trust me, I have been in as much pain as she has, waking up several times in the night and dealing with a cranky baby all day.) Avery's little double tooth smile was so cute that I figured today was the last day I might have to capture it before the other teeth fully emerge and get into the shot.

So, we had a little shoot. Here are a few more pics from the morning.


MIA

Yes, I have been missing in action.

And we are all okay.

We have been busy! I have been tirelessly working on editing all of our Europe pics and putting them in an album. It is all uploaded now which means two things. 1) I can sleep and even focus on other things, like feeding the kids, and 2) People can view it online before I can hold it in my hands. (If you'd like to see it, you can email me and I will send you the details.)

Brad has been busy starting another job (to help fill in around the summer hours he's been given).

And the boys have just finished a week of camps. Sigh. Is it terrible of me to wish we could sign them up for a few more camps this summer? It was SO nice to have a clean house and get things done. (Granted, last week it was all about the book, but future camps would allow me to nap and even take care of the closets!)

Jayden went to art camp. They made lots of interesting art projects (photos to come) that are now cluttering up my house. Paintings using five different mediums, clay masks, pottery, wooden boxes . . . anything you can name. (Including homemade "puffy" green paint that Jackson got a hold of and, well, now our couch, floor, walls, and my purse are a "fuffy" green.) I think I will have to take some photos (of Jayden's masterpieces), put them in a book and say good bye to all the "stuff". They also went to the city museum which he had a blast at.

Jackson went to mini adventure camp. His was only half a day, but it was still a nice break for me. They sang songs, made a few crafts, and went splashing around on a splash pad.

Now we are in to swimming lessons. I must admit, it was hilarious to watch them in class. Jayden was pretty nervous and screaming through several exercises while Jackson had this huge goofy grin on his face.

Posts will be coming more frequently now and hopefully I will be able to get to work on the boys' birthday pics and such.

In the meantime, you might have to check through our sidebar listing the post names. I have put new posts up, but orderred them in chronological order in sequence of our trip.

Thursday, June 26, 2008

School's Out!

School is officially out!

To celebrate, we went off to our favourite water front park that very afternoon for some fun in the sun!This park is great. Not only is it beautiful since it is right on the water, but it has a splash pad, an amazing playground, and a few trees for a shady picnic spot. The only thing is it has small pebbles instead of sand . . . which isn't too much of a problem, but I wish I had bought some beach cushions from Cannes! They really would have come in handy!Good old Jackson. You probably think those people in the picture below are friends. No, well, not to start with. But after Jackson went ahead and played with all their toys, they became friends enough.
We did go with some friends. Scotty and Mariel came along. They loved the trucks from that one family too.The swings were a bit hit, as usual. Avery loved her first time on swings. She would cry until I came back to push her . . . then she would laugh her head off! Surprisingly, she figured out how to "pump" herself on the swing. Avery would throw her body forward and then backwards to go faster and higher.It was a great (but exhausting) afternoon. A fabulous way to say "goodbye" to school.

I am definitely relieved that school is out.

Dragging three kids over to the school before 9:05am every morning, having only 2.5 hrs to run errands, unpack, nurse and nap Avery, and then drag everyone over to the school to get Jayden . . . yeah, I'm not going to miss that.

But, knowing that my baby is finished his first year of school. That's hard to take.
Originally I struggled with the idea of enrolling Jayden. What could he possibly learn in Jr. Kindergarten that I couldn't teach him at home?
But with the demands of Jackson and a new baby, I really wouldn't have done as many fun, exciting science experiments, songs, crafts, and field trips as he got to do this year.
He also got a lot of socialization that he desperately needed; as well as extra encouragement to participate in singing, dancing, and drama.

It's so sad to see your kids grow up.

I thought it was only the first day of school that was supposed to be hard!

Things Got a Little Messy . . .

For Jayden's Fifth Birthday, we held an "Art Party" at the Templeman Art Studio.

Jayden asked to decorate his own cake, which I was a big fan of. (It was much easier than doing it myself, and it probably looks better than what I could have done!)

For the activities, we had each guest design their own loot bag using brown paper bags and markers.Then we made a small popsicle stick puppet and had an exciting "Rainbow Relay". Each guest lined up in one of two teams, armed with paints in each colour of the rainbow. The first person ran up to the poster to colour in red, then next orange, etc. Jayden was pretty proud to be on the winning team.
Jackson, however, might have held up his team a little while he was putting his finishing touches on.
Favourite presents included: art supplies, a magic kit, a remote control helicopter, and a wiggly sprinkler.
Happy Fifth Birthday, Jayden! I hope you had a fabulous day!